can't you move the card?
there are apps that can distribute ASIO.
if the other app is recording the wave dest, there's no reason it shouldn't work.
yes, there will be a new driver if there is a new version of Scope. it is planned and being worked on. spend lots of money and it will happen faster. money spent in the past is altrady spent and rent is always due. with more money, those who work on Scope can spend more time working on Scope. thats how the real world works. Scope is for music production and integration of many different systems. it also is quite good at providing high-end gear in a flexible package that is relatively cheap, when compared to the hardware it replaces. it's also great at providing a modular platform for audio freaks, both with the modular synths and SDK, that kind of thing doesn't get useless, i'm not sorry to say. it does all that well and because of that, it won't ever be the same as using a soundcard. i can understand that for some purposes, some thought is required, and it seems a little strange when some of those purposes are all in the box. Scope isn't in the box. unlike the computer, it does everything in realtime, so it's really it's own world. this makes things easier and harder, but it also makes almost everything possible. there are a number of different possible solutions, i'm not sure what would work best.
you could try Reroute in Reaper, that would be free to try. Reaper will allow you to route ASIO to other sequencers and apps.
there have been threads about multiclient ASIO on Z, here's an app from one of those threads:
https://o-deus-audio.com.au/ASIOLinkPro
i get the frustration, but more about what you want to do and less pfffft and

would make it easier for people to help.
of course, if Scope doesn't help you, there's no need to be angry. use what works.