This is the very part which I personally do not like from your side, Hubird. To me, that is stirring up war. Also from my point of view it is counter productive. It is quite obvious, that you want DAS out of here. But when shit comes from both sides, it all gets quite a bit more complicated.hubird wrote: With the lack of rational controll from you know I think it works better to seduce them to show the real (D*S) thing everytime.
I would really prefer, if everyone could stay. I think all the involved parties have good an valuable things to bring to the community. But, as John, I do not want to see shit flying around here any more. There for I think it would be really nice, if people would all leave it up to others to make their own mistakes (if mistakes are to be maid at all). People, who do fair play can stay. People who do not will have to leave. It is really the simplest and least ugly way to do these things.
If Hubird would stop serving sour apples to DAS, and if DAS would stop thinking that every time certain forum members open their mouth, it is with the sole purpose to destroy DAS, then we would have come a long way. Olive and Eric - people can disagree with you without wanting to see you dead. The sad thing is, that if someone has another point of view, then hell breaks out, and it is not pretty.
So now, if people would agree to treat each other with respect, that would all be nice. The problem here may be, that people might have different definitions of what it means to "treat someone with respect". To me it includes (but is not limited to):
- accepting, that we do not all agree on everything
- not trying to fool other people into making mistakes
- understanding the fine line between assuming and knowing about other people, and understanding that accusations based on assumptions are potentially very insulting
These points are about respecting other forum members - but it is also about respecting the forum - Z - as a whole. And if people can not respect others in these simple ways, then they should really keep their bad feelings to themselves.
People who behave badly will usually do a fine job collecting enough bad atmosphere around them to eventually get kicked out. They do not need help for that. So please stop helping them. It is really just polluting Z.